You keep meaning to see them.

So does everyone. The message never quite gets sent, the month goes by, and the plan you both actually wanted never happens.

seemyfriends.net fixes the part that's actually broken. Tell us roughly when you're open. We watch for a time you and a friend are both genuinely free, and then we ask you both at once. Nobody has to organize anything. Nobody has to be the one who reaches out.

You just get a text that says a good thing is possible, and you say yes.

By invitation

seemyfriends.net is invite-only while it is small. There is no list to join — the way in is a link from someone you already want to see more of, which is also the only way the service is any use.

If a friend has sent you one, open it on your phone and you will be set up in two questions.

How it works

Say when you're open. "Most evenings this month, up to a couple of things." That's the whole setup. No times, no proposals, no calendar tetris.
We watch for an opening. Quietly, in the background, across everyone you've connected with. If you've linked a calendar, we check it so you don't have to.
We ask you both at the same time. One text, one reply. When you both say yes, it goes in the calendar and you go see your friend.

Three ways to use it

Bring your own AI: Point Claude or ChatGPT at us and let it handle the details. It already knows your schedule and how you like to spend a Thursday.
Use ours: No AI of your own? We'll run one for you. Text it like you'd text a friend — "I'm around most of next week, but not Tuesday."
Or just reply Y: One character is always enough. No app, no login, nothing to learn.

What we won't do

We don't read your calendar: Only whether you're free or busy. Never what you're doing, who with, or where.
We don't report back: If a time doesn't work for you, your friend is never told that you passed — only that it didn't come together.
We don't blow up your phone: A small number of messages, only when something real is possible, never during hours you've told us not to.